Living Credit Card To Credit Card: How To Break The Cycle

By Maxime Rieman

Most of us have heard financial experts decry the dangers of “living paycheck to paycheck,” wherein a person’s income is so close to their expenses every month that they’re unable to put any money aside for emergencies or retirement. Of course, these gurus are right to be concerned: saving is an important habit to get into because it is an important safety net and it allows us to build wealth.

So yeah, living paycheck to paycheck isn’t ideal.

But really, I think the personal finance professionals are barking up the wrong tree. They’re right to be concerned that a lot of us are failing to save, but living paycheck to paycheck isn’t the worst monetary state you can be in. As most of us who have been in serious financial trouble know, there is a much direr financial situation you can fall into: living credit card to credit card.

Yep, credit-card-to-credit-card living is about as bad as it can get. If you’ve never experienced this type of financial lifestyle, it goes something like this: you charge up a credit card to the point that it’s just about maxed out. You probably keep your head just above water by paying the minimums on the card every month, just to be sure your credit score stays solid enough that you can get another card. Which you do. Then you charge that card up, without ever paying the balance on the first card. Again, you keep up with monthly minimums, but pretty soon you need another card. And not long after that, you can’t keep up with the minimums on the two other cards, so you use the third card to pay the other two. But now you have no more available credit, so you need another card. And so on. And so on.

Many college graduates fall into this trap. They graduate totally broke – student loan bills, rent, a car payment, and a bunch of other expenses eat up their nonexistent paychecks. But they also don’t adjust their spending accordingly, and quickly open more credit cards first to accommodate their splurges, and then to pay off the other cards. Keep in mind, in the past--even just as recently as 2007--banks were still doling out credit as generously as those free lollipops. So for many graduates, it is—well was--really easy to keep getting new cards to bail themselves out of payments that were too high on the other cards, and, of course, gain a little spending money, too.

This cycle lasts for about a year, and by then most realize that they are drowning. This is when the stress begins: stressed out about money all the time; constantly concerned about missing a payment or worse, not having enough to even pay the minimums; and sweat-inducing nightmares. For those, who are experiencing this during the Great Recession, I can only imagine your feelings of helplessness and the perpetual state of fright you must be in.

The good news is that, you can turn things around. You can go from a total money-wreck to financially savvy with some stubborn resolve, sacrifice and the knowledge that it can be done; knowing that there is an end in sight can really help on those hard days. If you’re looking to break the cycle of credit card to credit card living, try a few of the tips below:

• Stop using the cards – This is probably the most important step you can take towards stopping the credit card madness. It will be painful and unpleasant, but you have to stop using your credit cards entirely, at least for a while. Freeze them, cut them up, give them to a trusted friend, whatever – just keep those cards out of your wallet and out of your hands for the time being.
• Don’t open any new cards – No matter how bad the credit card withdrawal symptoms get, resist the urge to open a new card. Even if you promise yourself you’ll be responsible with this one, just say no. At some point you may be in a financial place where credit cards won’t pose a threat, but that’s not now.
• Put yourself on a budget – One of the reasons you probably got into debt is that you failed to create a plan for your money, which is what a budget does. Figure out how much money you make every month, then make a list of all your expenses, including non-fixed monthly costs like gas and groceries. Decide how much you want to spend in each category, making sure to allocate a hefty amount to debt repayment. Then, stick to your plan!
• Also, put yourself on a cash allowance – Since you’re not using credit cards, you’ll need a way to manage your spending money. I recommend cash. Go to the ATM every Friday; take out your spending money for the week ahead. Not only does this reacquaint you with the value of money (cash is concrete, credit cards are abstract), when it the money is gone, it’s gone. This will keep you out of trouble!
• Increase your income – Once you’ve quit credit cards and set a budget, it’s time to get serious about debt payoff by increasing your income. Get a second job, baby sit, walk your neighbor’s dog, or find some other income stream. But just be sure you use the extra cash to pay off your debts – no shopping sprees allowed!

Breaking the credit-card-to-credit-card lifestyle is tough, but it is doable. Even after a month you’ll start to feel better. Keep your chin up and know that you’re working towards a brighter financial future!

Maxime Rieman is a writer for NerdWallet, a financial literacy site where you can find brokerage reviews, such as this TD Ameritrade Review, when you’re ready to start investing.

Ban Uncontrollable Spending for Good

Guest Post by Lauren Bailey

6 Steps to Shopping Addiction Recovery

It is an unfortunate reality that many Americans and citizens across the world have found themselves in debt and living beyond their means. As common as this is, though, suffering from an actual shopping addiction is quite a separate issue, and it can leave hugely detrimental marks on your finances. If you have found yourself compulsively spending and you need to break the cycle, here are some easy steps to help start the process.

1.  Admit you have a problem and seek the help of a counselor.
As anyone who has struggled with an addiction issue knows, the hardest part about the process is completely admitting to yourself that you have a problem that is out of your control. The next step is admitting you need help. Remember, if you could help yourself, you would have done it already! Make an appointment with a counselor or psychologist to talk about the issue and get some guidance about ways to move forward.

2.  Cut up Your Credit Card
The first step to financial freedom after putting yourself in damaging debt is to give up your credit card, once and for all. Pay for purchases with cash, check or debit only.

3.  Find Shopping Alternatives
The compulsion to shop is not going to simply go away because you realized you are addicted. In fact, your need to shop will probably grow the more you try to fight it. Make a list of activities that you can do in place of shopping, so you have plenty of options handy.

4.  Bring a Shopping List Every Time
If you want to control what you buy, then you need to figure out exactly what you need, and only purchase those items. Make a list of items you need to purchase every time you shop, whether it is for clothing or groceries, and stick to it.

5.  Change Your Lifestyle
Keeping up the same routine as you had before you started dealing with your addiction will not help your recovery process. Instead, think of this as a time to change up the way you live. Drive a different way to work, eat out at different restaurants, and add activities that you never did before to your weekly schedule.

6.  Bring a Friend
When in doubt, bring a friend. Find someone you can trust to support your through your recovery process and call them when you feel the urge to shop, or when you have to go shopping and feel afraid you will overspend.


Author Bio:
Lauren Bailey regularly writes for online colleges. She welcomes your comments at her email Id: blauren99 @gmail.com.

Ways to Avoid Credit Card Debt this Holiday Season

Guest Post by Amanda Tradwick

Some of us can spend thousands of dollars on gifts during the holiday season. Many of us turn to the convenience of our credit cards to finance these giving (shopping) sprees, causing us to impulse purchase and spend much more in the long run by paying high interest rates. Even more modest holiday shopping budgets can spiral out of control when they are compounded by excessive interest rates over the year, or more, they take to pay off. Here are a few tips to help you avoid using your credit cards this holiday season and accumulating more debt:

Make a List

Start out by making a list of everyone for whom you want to buy a gift. Include family, friends, work associates, church members and anyone else you can think of who you want to give a gift. If you find that the list has become too long, you can go back through and remove some people. Creating a complete picture of your gift list will help you budget better.

Set a Budget (and Stick to It!)

Now that you know who you want to buy for, start setting a price limit for each person to come up with an overall budget. This is easier than setting an overall budget and then dividing by the number of recipients because you aren't likely to want to spend the same amount on your officemate as you are on your mother. If you find that your overall budget ends up being too high once you've set individual limits, you can go back and make a few adjustments. Setting an overall budget -- and a per-person budget -- will help you to better select gifts once you begin.

Hit the Sales

Once you have your budget, maximize its potential by shopping sales and online promotions. There are a few times a year when many retailers are known to mark down their items, most notably the day after Thanksgiving and the Monday after Thanksgiving. Shopping during this time can save you a significant amount. The period after Thanksgiving and before Christmas is also a generally good time to shop.

Don't limit yourself to these sales times! Look for sales throughout the year -- even those right after Christmas if you're able to plan that far out for the next year. Also, take advantage of online sales and specials. Many retailers offer lower prices through their online stores, as well as free shipping and gifts with purchase. Check out all your options to get the lowest prices that you can.

Leave Your Credit Cards at Home

If you don't have your credit cards with you when you shop, you won't be tempted to use them to spend more than your budget, to purchase impulse items for which you had not planned, or to get "just a little something extra." Take cash with you, or use a debit card that is tied directly to your checking account and does not have a protective credit line. Once you're out of cash, you're done buying.

Make Gifts

The easiest way to save money on your gifts and to save yourself the burden of credit card debt is to make some of your gifts. Many friends and family would prefer to receive a gift that was made with a sincere spirit or that has some sentimental value. Framed photos, favorite baked goods or even heartfelt letters all make great gifts. Be creative and make it specific to the recipient.

Saving early, making a plan and doing some smart shopping can all help you to save money this holiday season and to avoid the burden of extra credit card debt. The earlier you plan (and save), the better off you will be and the brighter your holidays!

Author Bio:
Amanda Tradwick is a grant researcher and writer for CollegeGrants.org. She has a Bachelor's degrees from the University of Delaware, and has recently finished research on grants for married college students and student grants in north carolina.

Lacey’s Credit Card Debt Story

Guest Post by Lacey Cook

Hello all. My name is Lacey Cook, and this is my personal credit card debt story. I was always taught to spend my money wisely. From the age of eight, I started to save for my first car. By the time I turned 18, I had saved enough to buy a six year old car at about $8,000. I paid in full with a check, and I’d never felt so great.

After that, I went off to college, where I had some trouble keeping my finances afloat, but I made it through with the help of my parents. After graduation, I got married and started a new chapter of my life. That’s where everything started to go south. I had no student loans or credit card debt, and we’d just got a few thousand dollars for our wedding, but that wasn’t enough. He was about $40,000 in debt from student loans and credit cards, and we had no way of paying our bills. We struggled to find jobs, and we ended up having to use my credit cards to make ends meet for the first few months of our marriage.

Finally, we found jobs and started to slowly dig our way out of the hole. Everything was great, but we still wanted something more, so we decided to get a dog. We went to the pound to adopt one, and found the most adorable little puppy I’d ever seen. She was fun, yet still wanted to cuddle, and I knew she would be the perfect addition to our new little family. We spent our weekly budget for groceries on her and decided to eat bologna and mac and cheese to tide us over.

The second day after we got her, she started to look lethargic, and I wanted to make sure she wasn’t sick so I took her to the vet. Turns out, she had a very draining virus that could have killed her if we hadn’t caught it in time, and even with the treatment, she still only had about a 50% chance of survival. I handed over my credit card. Two days and nearly $2,000 later, we finally got to take her back home to nurse her back to health.

We knew, at that point, that we had to make some drastic changes in our spending to get us back out of debt. We sat down, made a list of all of our monthly expenses, and created a budget to suit our life. I started clipping coupons and stopped buying name brand items to cut down our grocery bill. We discontinued our cable bill as well and used digital rabbit ears instead. We cut down our budget so much that we were able to start paying way more than the minimum payment on our debts each month, which I know is important when you are trying to save your credit score.

We’re not out of the woods yet, but we’re getting there as fast as we can. In fact, we’ve been so successful, that we’re also able to put away a little money each month to start a retirement fund. I know you may be thinking that we shouldn’t have to worry about such things yet because we’re young and have plenty of time, but I have realized that I definitely don’t want to have to work until I’m too old to stand. The sooner a person starts to save for retirement, the sooner they can actually retire. I am determined and motivated to get out of this debt and live my life to the fullest.

Author Bio:
Lacey Cook is an author who writes guest posts on the topics of business, marketing, credit cards, and personal finance. Additionally, she works for a website that focuses on educating readers about getting their first credit card.

Finding Options to Help Fight Off Debt

Guest Post by Stella Walker

Getting into debt is scary. There is no denying that. You start to get this anxious feeling of being trapped; you have too many bills not paid off to think clearly. You know you have to do something, but you feel like you don't have a lot of options.

In actuality, there are a lot of options out there, and I'm not just talking about bankruptcy (although this is still viable in extreme cases). Half the battle is getting yourself out of this emotional and psychological slump and convincing yourself that you can be proactive about your debt and finances.

Cut off luxuries

If you can't pay your own bills, it's time to start making your own coffee and lunch and bringing it to work. You should also at least attempt to repair household items yourself. If there's no cancellation fee, cancel your gym membership and instead opt for good-old-fashioned jogging. While you're at it, cancel any other services that you don't need; if the service doesn't facilitate you getting out of debt, you don't need it.

Start a small business

While it is true that it generally does take some money to startup a small business, some business start-ups are actually extremely low cost. One extremely cheap startup is a snow cone stand. Have any secret hobbies or skills? Now is the time to put yourself out there and at least give it a shot. You'd also be surprised how cheap it is to start up an online business. You could even write a blog telling the story of your struggles with debt (like this one).

Balance Liquidation Plans

If you have a whole slew of credit cards with outstanding balances and frighteningly high interest rates, you should perhaps consider requesting balance liquidations plans from your creditors. While this doesn't allow you to charge to cards that you've liquidated, it does lower the interest rates to extreme degrees. Just be sure that you have ways to make necessary expenses without your cards.

Pay Cash

If you do wind up liquidating your cards, this is a great way to try budgeting with cash. The beauty of a cash budget is that it forces you not to overspend because you literally can't. You take out the amount of money you want to budget each week (or month) in cash, and if you find yourself getting low on cash, you just have to start scraping pennies and looking for food in the freezer until the set time that you allow yourself to take out more cash.

Use Envelopes

If you decide to limit your budget with cash withdrawal restraints, another great strategy is to organize separate budgets into different envelopes. For example, you'll have envelops for bills, clothes, groceries, etc. with a designated amount for each envelope. The idea here is that you limit a budget for each area of your life, and if one envelope empties to quickly, you have identified a possible spending problem in your household.

Author Bio:
Stella Walker is a freelance writer of free credit score where she writes about topics including credit, debt, investment, bankruptcy.

How to Avoid Overspending on Your Credit Card

Guest Post By Andrew Black

Your credit card debt could be piling up by now if you are into overspending. It is becoming a common problem these days as the number of so-called shopaholic people increases. Moreover, modern society has obviously made it very easy to spend much more than you should. It is about time you start aiming to clear your rising credit card debts.

If you want to obtain peace of mind, you should aim to curtail, control, and eliminate overspending. In reality, it could be harder than you think. Most of the time, consumers fail to resist the urge to spend according to their means. Overspending is a problem that leads to more financial problems. Thus, it would be best if you would observe the following tips on how to avoid it.

Prevent impulsive spending

Spending on impulse could be a habit. It is one of the main reasons cited for consumers’ overspending activities. To prevent it, try to reflect prior to buying any item. If you like to buy anything you see in a retail shop, try not to make a purchase right away. Instead, wait for a day before you actually decide to buy it. Doing so would enable you to rethink the proposition to buy and possibly find other items that could be comparatively better.

Do not go to places where there are numerous temptations to buy. Overspending is common to consumers who frequent shopping centres and retail shops. If you go to such places to overcome boredom, try to find other venues to do so. Likewise, try not to spend your lunch break strolling around retail shops. How about hanging out in a garden or a park where there could be less temptation to spend anything?

Live within a strict budget

If overspending is your problem, set a specific budget per week. Intend not to spend beyond this allocation no matter what happens. Furthermore, make sure your weekly budget is in cash, which is much easier to monitor. Keep your credit cards in a secured place and do not bring it whenever you go out so as not to face the urge to spend unnecessarily.

It would also help if you would know how much you spend. Be conscious when you buy small or relatively cheap items. For instance, do not buy coffee as frequently as you do. Review your bank accounts, payables, and credit card bills so you would determine how much you spend within a particular period. Also try to look at different types of items you purchase.

Set objectives when shopping

You could effectively avoid overspending if you would set clear objectives prior to shopping. Buy items because you really need them, not because you want them. Before deciding to purchase anything, think more than twice whether you would go on and complete the purchase. Do not try to look closer at things that do not fall within your shopping objectives.

Lastly, you could curtail overspending by avoiding spending by habit. Review your own habitual spending pattern. This way, you could determine whether you tend to buy things based on necessity or simply based on your habit. Try to find other recreational activities that would take most of your idle time from habitual spending.

Andrew has been working in the finance industry helping people to consolidate credit card debts. Andrew now likes to share advice on how to avoid debt.